In my browsing of the web today I found a great film made by Child Net International  that addresses the issue of cyberbullying. The film follows a teen boy as he finds himself the target of bullying.  It’s something all parents should watch in order to gain a better understanding of how these things happen and what effect it has on teens.  I think it’s easy for adults to sometimes brush off the idea of cyberbullying because it was never a part of their adolescence.  I mean it does make sense that being bullied through text message or online chat would seem less threatening than getting physically beat up for your lunch money.  However, the issue with cyberbullying is that it’s impossible to escape from because you never know where it will show up.  It’s not as easy as avoiding a certain group of kids while at school or walking a different way home. Cyberbullying allows you to be harassed through instant messaging, threatened through e-mail and humiliated on myspace.  It is everywhere and with the far reach of the internet, a humiliating photo could be e-mailed to everyone in your school or posted on myspace for the whole world to see.  For teens, this can create the feeling that their world is over and they can’t handle it.  That’s why we’ve seen so many tragic cases of suicide related to cyberbullying cases.  To find out more about cyberbullying and for some tips on how to prevent and address it you can visit articles here and here. Also, you can watch the film below or HERE. 

The Christian Science Monitor has run a story this week about online fight videos and cyber-bullying and how social networks are being pressured to put restrictions on what users are doing to hurt and humiliate others online. This past year there was a big to do about a group of teen girls in Florida who video taped themselves beating up a classmate and then posted it on Youtube. Additionally, other ways of cyber-bullying and intimidation have found their way off the schoolyard and onto the internet. This raises questions about what role companies like Myspace, Facebook and Youtube should play in preventing this type of user abuse.

The article is pretty long but it’s informative and should be read by anyone who works with or parents teens.

Too-Busy Teens Feel Health Toll

The Washington Post has reported a number of teens around the country have been grappling with the consequences of an over scheduled life.  These include increased amounts of stress worrying about education, college, career and their future as well as poor health that results from constant anxiety, stress, and reduced amounts of sleep.  Sometimes parents, teachers and other adults out so much pressure on teens to succeed that they miss out on being a teen.  While preparing for the future and getting a good education are important, it’s also important that young people are given proper opportunities to enjoy their adolescence. Read the full story…. 

Peer Pressure Can Carry Great Weight in Girls’ Eating and Exercise Habits

Peer Pressure has and likely will always be a part of being a teen.  In adolescence young people are desperate to fit in and are sometimes willing to go to great extremes to ensure acceptance.  Recent research has found that while TV, Movies and other forms of media do affect a teen girl’s body image, another huge decider of her exercise and eating habits are peers. Here is a column from yesterday’s Washington Post that goes into greater detail: Read the full story… 

 Parents encouraging pre-teens to get fake tans

Here is a weird story from India that is about kids in Australia that I want to share with my audience that is primarily located in America.  Apparently, parents down under are taking their tweens to spray tanning salons  in order to keep them from visiting tanning beds or hanging out in the sun at the beach.  While this may reduce the risk of a young person getting skin cancer, what does it communicate to a 10 year old girl that thinks she needs to get a tan before she has her school pictures taken?  To me it seems they might be sending the wrong message about beauty and body image.  Read the full story…

The Nokia Lolitas: A combustible mix of minors, sex and technology

It’s a sultry early Friday night in downtown Fairfield and a pod of teenagers has converged at the local 7-11 for the free Slurpees being given away in celebration of July 11, aka 7/11. The teens are armed with all the tech you’d expect from suburban kids of some means, raised in the age of cell phones and the Internet. Instead of riding Razor Scooters, they’re talking on Razr V3 fully-loaded phones and listening to tunes on their iPods. As the new tech has taken hold, it’s been accompanied by a spike in amateur, do-it-yourself exhibitionism. It’s a sexual revolution that’s trickling down to teens, who are experimenting with sexuality in a way that’s more public than ever before. Read the full story… 

Studies Suggest, But Don’t Confirm, Bullying-Suicide Connection 

Researchers have repeatedly found signs of an apparent connection between bullying and suicide in children, according to a new review of studies from 13 countries. Nevertheless, there is no definitive evidence that bullying makes kids more likely to kill themselves.  Still, “once we see that there’s an association, we can act on it and try to prevent it,” said review lead author Dr. Young-Shin Kim, an assistant professor at Yale University School of Medicine’s Child Study Center.  According to international studies, bullying is common and affects anywhere from 9 percent to 54 percent of children. In the United States, many have blamed bullying for spurring acts of violence, including the Columbine High School massacre. Read the full story…

Cyberbullying grows bigger and meaner with photos, video 

Ricky Alatorre doesn’t know which classmate surreptitiously hoisted a cellphone camera and snapped his picture or exactly when it happened. All Ricky, 16, knows is the fuzzy yet distinguishable portrait of him in English class showed up on MySpace, on a page that claimed to be his. And the fake profile, titled “The Rictionary,” not only identified his school but also said Ricky loved dictionaries — a swipe at his school smarts — and was gay (he’s not), one of the most common schoolyard taunts. Read the full story…

Disney bucks music industry downturn 

While many music industry executives are crying in their soup, Walt Disney Music Group’s Damon Whiteside is singing “Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah.” Whiteside, senior vice president of marketing of Walt Disney Records, saw a whopping 60 percent rise in music sales from 2006 to 2007 because of the tween and young-teen music craze led by Disney star Miley Cyrus. Meanwhile, overall music industry sales were down 17 percent in the same period because of digital downloads and pirated music online. “It’s thanks to the tween and younger teens that the music business is staying alive,” Whiteside said here at the YPulse 2008 National Mashup, a two-day conference about teens and technology. Read the full story…

Teen Pregnancy: Why the U.S. Lags Behind Europe 

Of all the industrialized countries in the world, the U.S. has, by far, the highest instance of teenage pregnancies with a rate that more than doubles the nearest competitors.  After posting on the topic earlier this week, I did some further research and came up with some common sense answers as to why this is.  One of the best sources I found was Advocates for Youth.  Each summer since in 1998, Advocates for Youth and the University of North Carolina at Charlotte sponsor annual study tours to France, Germany, and the Netherlands to explore why adolescent sexual health outcomes are so much more positive in the three European countries than in the U.S.  The following italicized bulleted points are from their most recent findings.  Here I will go point and counter point with what the Europeans do successfully and our U.S. reality—buckle up! Read the full story… 

Cell phone is mom-avoidance device for teens

Tweens and teens are pushing parents to adopt text messaging so they don’t have to talk “live” over the cell phone, according to mobile phone executives. A typical teenager carrying a cell phone might let mom’s call roll over to voicemail and then immediately text her back, “What going on?,” according to Stephen Saiz, manager of consumer insight and strategy of the Walt Disney Internet Group’s North American mobile division. “Teens are pushing their parents to go on mobile because they don’t really want to communicate with them directly,” Saiz said here on a panel of mobile executives at the YPulse 2008 National Mashup, a two-day conference on teens and technology. He said later in an interview that his Disney division researches teens’ and parents’ behavior on the cell phone and with its mobile applications. The majority of older audiences using Disney mobile applications skew to mothers who are goaded there by their kids, he said. And most tweens and teens prefer to text message and instant chat with parents and friends rather than talk directly so that they can continue doing other things like play video games with friends, he said. Read the full story…

TheStar.com:  Can subcultures still thrive in the glare of the digital age?

The underground, and especially the subcultures that inhabit it, have been much debated and examined since British academic Dick Hebdige published Subculture: The Meaning of Style (1979), a groundbreaking examination of the symbols and rituals of the punk subculture in London. Almost a decade after Subculture, in an essay reflecting on youth culture, Hebdige wrote: “Subculture forms up in the space between surveillance and the evasion of surveillance, it translates the fact of being under scrutiny into the pleasure of being watched. It is a hiding in the light.” Read the full story… 

Family meals turn teenaged girls away from drugs, alcohol 

Adolescent girls who sit down for frequent meals with their families are half as likely to smoke, drink and use marijuana as those who share family meals less often, according to a new study. “Part of it is just parents being more in touch with their kids, being able to see earlier on if their kids are veering down a path that might not be filled with healthy choices,” says Marla Eisenberg, lead author of the paper and a professor of pediatrics in the University of Minnesota’s medical school. Read the full story…

MediaPost: Overexposed: Kids See Too Many Alcohol Ads On Cable

Alcohol TV commercials are on the rise—and more young people are being exposed to them, especially on cable programs. Georgetown University’s Center on Alcohol Marketing and Youth (CAMY) says 12- to-20-year-olds witnessed nearly a 40% rise in alcohol messaging from 2001 to 2007. The group says exposure levels to these ads by young people are the highest since the group begin monitoring ads in 2001. But there is some progress—especially from one self-regulating approach from alcohol trade associations. Where 30% or more of a TV show’s audience is made up of underage drinkers—under age 21—the group notes that the percentage of alcohol product ads on these programs has been trimmed to 6.3% in 2007 from 11% in 2003. The main problem is cable TV. Read the full story…

New York Post: RETAILER SEES RED OVER RISQUE AD ‘SPEED DRESSING’ 

New York ad agency Saatchi & Saatchi is trying to contain the damage after a major client, JC Penney, took the firm to task over a fake viral ad that makes light of teen sex. The ad, called “Speed Dressing,” shows two teens practicing taking their clothes off - and then putting them back on quickly - in anticipation of eventually hooking up in the basement while mom is upstairs. The spot displays Penney’s logo and campaign slogan, “Every Day Matters.” Penney officials claim they became aware of the ad, which never aired on television, only after it popped up on YouTube and a slew of other Web sites over the weekend. Read the full story…

Red Herring: Report: Apple Killed Music Industry 

Apple’s iPod is partly to blame for the collapse of the music industry, according to a report Friday from researcher eMarketer. The Mac maker helped set the tone for a “rat’s nest of restrictions and incompatibilities” that have stalled the growth of digital music, according to Paul Verna, the author of the report. Revenue in the music industry continues to decline in part because of consumer confusion, the report said. A big part of the reason is music fans are asked to sort out the explosion of incompatible formats, players, restrictions, and retailers. That lack of simplicity  has slowed sales. Apple has been a “double-edged sword” for the industry, the report said. Its closed system works well for iPod users, “but leaves many frustrated consumers outside of that system.” Read the full story…

CNET: Kid Rock’s surprising take on illegal downloading 

Kid Rock’s sarcastic “just do it” YouTube rant on illegal downloading is funny and makes the point—illegal downloading is stealing. With a smile on his face Rock says, “I’m rich,” so sure it’s OK to steal my music. Oh, and while you’re at it, “Steal everything.” Steal an iPod, Steve Jobs is a billionaire, he’ll never miss it. Get yourself a Toyota, “They’re foreign” and the gas too, “You know how much money the oil companies make?” Rock shrugs it all off, “They’re not going to miss $30 or $40 worth of gas.”  Read the full story and watch the video… 

MSNBC: Religious Americans: My faith isn’t the only way 

America remains a nation of believers, but a new survey finds most Americans don’t feel their religion is the only way to eternal life — even if their faith tradition teaches otherwise.  The findings, released Monday in a survey of 35,000 adults, can either be taken as a positive sign of growing religious tolerance, or disturbing evidence that Americans dismiss or don’t know fundamental teachings of their own faiths.  Among the more startling numbers in the survey, conducted last year by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life: 57 percent of evangelical church attendees said they believe many religions can lead to eternal life, in conflict with traditional evangelical teaching.  Read the full story…

AP: Little `Barbie Brat’ bullies become concern 

Recess was Allie Long’s favorite part of the day until the second grade, when some of her friends on the playground pressured her to join their whisper campaign against a classmate. Allie shrugged. She didn’t want to hear their rumor or help spread it around. In an instant, her best friends since kindergarten became her tormenters. “They started taunting and teasing her,” said Allie’s mom, Trudy Ludwig. “She was on this play structure and they blocked all of the exits and wouldn’t let her off. They started moving closer to her. Allie just freaked out. One of the girls realized it was getting out of hand and got a teacher to help.” Bullying among adolescents has captured the attention of researchers, educators and parents alarmed by a parade of mean girls and cyber-bullies caught in mid-punch on viral video. But such aggression may not just happen in a whirl of adolescent hormones, some in the growing anti-bully movement argue. Read the full story…

Advertising Age: Hey, Buddy, Can I Bum a Snus Off You? 

Faced with rising taxes for cigarettes — in New York the price of a pack hit $9 — and ever-tightening smoking bans in places such as Los Angeles, where a bill threatens to force smokers out of all outdoor eating areas, Big Tobacco is trying a new approach to keep America’s dwindling 45 million smokers in the fold. The solution: snus (they are always curiously plural), a pinch of steam-cured tobacco nestled in a tiny tea-bag-like pouch. Snus don’t need to be spit out like traditional fermented dipping tobacco; they simply remain under your upper lip until you’ve gotten your nicotine fix.  Read the full story…

Advertising Age: In Google We Trust

The most reputable company in America: Google, which toppled Microsoft from the top perch in the 2007 Harris Interactive Reputation Quotient study released today — and sent it tumbling all the way down to No. 10. But what should be even more eye-opening to the companies rounding out the top 10 — which include Johnson & Johnson and General Mills — and the rest of the list is that Google’s victory shows that a company that spends nothing on advertising can still be the most positively perceived by consumers.  Read the full story…

Texting ‘addiction’ costing teens, parents

When the cell bill arrived, complete with a $300 payment notice, Travis Ramsay was in a state of disbelief. Travis Ramsay ran up a $300 mobile phone bill, mainly because of texting charges. “I was pretty mad,” the 13-year-old said. “I walked outside and punched the wall as hard as I could.” He was mad because even though the bill was his father’s name, Travis Ramsay had to pay it. After all, it was his text messaging that padded the amount due. Ramsay said when he started texting his friends, some who at times were standing right by him, and he didn’t realize the cost. Plus, he said, it was fun. Read the full story…

Emaxhealth: Strong Student Connection To School Community Key To Preventing Violence

In a report issued by McLean Hospital, the United States Secret Service and the United States Department of Education, researchers note that creating a positive school climate in which students believe the school staff genuinely wants to hear from them about threats or possible attacks is critical to preventing future Columbine-like school violence. The 15-page report “Prior Knowledge of Potential School-Based Violence: Information Students Learn May Prevent a Targeted Attack,” available at www.secretservice.gov , outlines the results of multiple interviews of bystanders to violent school attacks to determine how students with prior knowledge of school violence made decisions regarding what steps, if any, to take after learning the information. Read the full story…

New York Times: Starving Themselves, Cocktail in Hand

Manorexia. Orthorexia. Diabulimia. Binge Eating Disorder. All are dangerous variations on the eating disorders anorexia and bulimia, and have become buzzwords that are popping up on Web sites and blogs, on television and in newspaper articles. As celebrity magazines chronicle the glamorous and the suffering, therapists and a growing number of researchers are trying to treat and understand the conditions. The latest entry in the lexicon of food-related ills is drunkorexia, shorthand for a disturbing blend of behaviors: self-imposed starvation or bingeing and purging, combined with alcohol abuse.  Read the full story…

The National Post: Exposed G-string tied to today’s social values.

For hippies, it was the androgynous tunic; for modern teens, it is the exposed G-string. “There’s always a link between style and social values,” said Mariette Julien, a professor at L’Universite du Quebec a Montreal who presented a paper on the topic of teen dress at the country’s largest annual gathering of academics last week. “People aren’t conscious of the symbolism in their style of dress, but it remains very present.” Read the full story…

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A new study is contradicting conventional wisdom by finding that teenage girls who consider themselves attractive are more likely to be the victims of emotionally damaging bullying - including being socially ostracized or having rumours spread about them.

The results may seem counter-intuitive, but Lindsey Leenaars, the author of the study and an educational psychology PhD student at the University of Alberta, said she expected the results. She said that while girls who are seen as attractive are expected to be popular, they’re also seen as competition among other girls for the attention of boys - and experience a 35 per cent higher risk of bullying.

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